tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7406075341769911210.post1757306533938529120..comments2013-09-28T13:44:14.923-04:00Comments on The Gypsy's Vardo: Chapter 40: Don't Be Insecure, Girl!Abigail Linhardthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09001582835756654042noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7406075341769911210.post-25298833098773484462012-02-17T12:05:58.393-05:002012-02-17T12:05:58.393-05:00Oh love...I'm so sorry.
It probably doesn'...Oh love...I'm so sorry.<br />It probably doesn't have as much to do with you as it does with her, you know? You ARE growing up by yourself and handling things extremely well (I've told you before that for years I've really respected that in you; your ability to figure this stuff out and do it all on your own), and making progress. You're self-motivated and a hard worker and a thorough thinker...but it sounds like you realize those things! And that you're smart and creative and beautiful! I'm really glad you know that.<br />That's why when your mom does this stuff it's probably brought on by her own emotional issues, rather than anything you have said or done. It's pretty classic human behavior, blaming/taking out one's own issues on someone else. Unfortunately, those "someone elses" happen to be the people closest to them who they inadvertently hurt the most.<br />I will be praying for you love, and for your relationship with your mom.<br />I love you <3Elhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17538003464169337695noreply@blogger.com